Nov 20, 2018
Today's my birthday.
I don't generally make a big deal about it, to be honest. I didn't even think I was going to do a special podcast episode about it, but this has been a big year.
I quit my corporate job after 11 years. Became a full-time entrepreneur. Ended a podcast. Launched a second one on my own. Launched a brand new coaching program. Made some incredible friends. Laid all kinds of incredible plans for next year and beyond.
Though I have to tell you, this past trip around the sun has been the most challenging, painful, exciting, stressful, and significant yet.
There have been major growing pains, with the highest highs and the lowest lows. I've learned a LOT about myself. And I'm hoping that some of it will help you bring more joy into your own life.
- Say "thank you" more often.
- Say no to protect your energy. Say yes to things that scare you (despite the cliche, it's damn true.)
- Stay in your own lane: don't let the Internet rush you or make you feel less-than.
- Care for your mental health as well as you would for your physical health. It's even more important.
- Letting go: learning to forgive quickly and release old beliefs and stories that are dragging you down.
- Celebrate the smallest everyday wins and victories.
- Female friendships matter.
- Take full responsibility for yourself and your own actions.
- Stop waiting for the right time.
- Life is going to knock you down, sometimes more often than you
thought you could survive. There are two things to remember
when that happens.
- Get super clear on your WHY. If you aren’t clear on where you’re going, you’ll never be able to create the map to get there.
- Figure out why you're grateful for a situation even when it feels hard as shit to come up reason. Life is happening FOR you, not to you.
"You're not meant to do what's easy, you're meant to challenge yourself."
-Justin Timberlake
I gotta say, 31 has been a slice, but I'm definitely looking forward to 32. Also, 32? I seriously don't feel my age!)
My final advice? Go eat a cupcake. Full disclosure, that's probably what I'm doing right now! ;)
REFERENCES
Fit & Nourished Mind Podcast with Emily Gough & Kate Hoerner
Episode #46,The One From Canada
Room to Grow Podcast Episodes
Episode #12, Taming Your Inner Mean Girl: Building Connection & Tribe
Episode #23,Building Your Life & Business in Full Alignment with Maryalice Goldsmith
Episode #24, Victim Mindset with Christina Montalvo
Episode #43, The Art of Maintaining Friendships with Christina Montalvo
DON’T MISS…
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